a16z (Andreessen Horowitz) · 2026-04-09 · 56d

How the Terminally Online Are Reshaping San Francisco's Tech Social Scene

San Francisco's tech social infrastructure is now entirely run by people who are terminally online, fundamentally changing how relationships form and trust is built. The new 'proof of work' for accessing the tech scene is your social media mutuals and online presence rather than traditional conference attendance and warm introductions. This shift—from X followers to group chats to Partiful events—is creating a generation-wide model for building trust, finding romantic partners, and hiring talent.

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Partiful event waitlist volume

hundredspeople

typical

'under the radar' SF tech events

Party recruitment cost

25000$

typical

SF startup engineer recruitment events

Traditional recruiter fee

50000$

typical

SF tech talent acquisition

Twitter engagement on SF living situation post

398likes

observed

sarah li apartment move announcement (Mar 9, 2026)