Tomasz Tunguz Blog · 2026-01-28 · 127d

Using AI as a Personal Coach: Building a Robotic Coxswain for Meeting Performance

Tomasz Tunguz describes building an AI system that reviews his work meetings nightly and provides coaching feedback across five dimensions: active listening, empathy, questioning effectiveness, communication clarity, and technical depth. The system identifies specific behavioral patterns like interrupting founders, surface-level questioning in one-on-ones, and lack of empathy in investor updates, helping him internalize feedback his wife had given for years.

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Metrics in this report

Blog Subscriber Base

150000readers

approximate

Tomasz Tunguz newsletter audience

Empathy Score

2out of 10

score

investor update call with emotional context

Follow-up Questions Ratio

2 out of 12%

ratio

30-minute one-on-one

Interruptions per Time Period

6interruptions

in first 10 minutes

pitch meeting

Questions Asked per Meeting Duration

12questions

in one 30-minute meeting

one-on-one check-in

Update Delivery Time

4minutes

for portfolio news update

investor update call